Foreign wife educate their children, her mother an eye-opener for China
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Son to the United States to study after graduation pushed to the States. Back I found a foreign wife Susan. Today, grandson Toby has been 3 years old. This summer, my son applied for a visitor's visa. Spent 3 months in the United States, foreign wife Susan ways to educate their children, so my Chinese mother eye-opener.
not eat on an empty
Every a.m., Toby woke up, Susan to the breakfast chart one location, they equitable keep running around tending the land. Toby ascended up on their own stool, nectar milk, eat toast. Eat, he returned to his apartment in the cabinet to find clothes,
Balance Xtreme, shoes, and then put on their own. Toby, once and for all, only 3 years old, are still not remove child's positive and negative, can not differentiate left and right foot shoes. Toby once again the anti-wear pants, and I quickly stepped ahead to aid him alteration, Susan was stopped. She said that if he felt uncomfortable, will themselves off and re-dressed; if he did not feel whichever discomfort, it will be with him. Of that day, Toby ran against wearing pants, as Susan did not see the same.
again, Toby out and the vicinity children to play, did not run out of inhalation more than the General Assembly on the home of Susan, said: Lucy said, to dress my jeans backwards, really? Susan smiled and said: Since then, Toby had never wearing anti-pants.
reminds me of my granddaughter 56 years old will not use chopsticks, basic educate will not tie his boot. Now in the navel of her boarding, family each weekend to do a lot of sordid clothes.
day at noon, Toby disgruntled, refused to eat. Susan said he was a few words, Toby, a little angrily pushed the plate to the ground, darting a plate of food in one place. Susan looked at Toby, said seriously: smiled within herself, this mother and son, but also all kind of die!
p.m., Susan and I talk, the evening I cook Chinese food. I take the clue, Toby particularly fond of Chinese food,
PULSERA NEGRA CON LOGO XB, it have to be midday Susan Toby did not feel good to eat, let him eat extra by night.
display cooking that night I did a Toby preference Sweet and Sour Pork, shrimp oil boring, merely also with pasta done Chinese-style noodles. Toby likes to eat the variety of noodle, full of mini people tin eat a huge panel.
began to eat banquet, Toby joy to climb the stool. Susan has came and took away his plate and knife and fork, said: to cry in tears, sighing, said:
I feel bad, and want to make Toby plea, say a good word,
XB 2011, I was surprised to detect his son a wink. Remember when I first came to the United States, his son told me that in the United States, parents educate their children, others do not interrupt, even the elders are no exception. Helpless, I had to remain silent.
repast, all along, poor little Toby has been sitting in toy car, looked on helplessly while the three of us adult wolf. I accomplished I do luncheon Susan's real purpose. I believe that next time, Toby would like to throw tantrums when their jobs, will think of their stomachs to see my parents and grandmother meal experience. Hungry for the taste of a bad experience, or face Moreover, their favorite food.
ahead going to sleep, with the whereabouts of Susan Toby and I mention good night. Toby cautiously asked: After slumber sleep Open your eyes, you can eat it? Toby Tiantiandexiao the.
maximum cases, Toby eat very positive, for he did not ambition to bitter. Every time I see Toby eating, breathing hard, face, lips are sticky edible, I think granddaughter. She, like Toby so many, in mandate to coax her to eat, a few adults holding jobs with her backward him, she did not buy it,
Xtreme Balance, but also on the conditions: after eating a bowl of dolls to purchase, eat a bowl of buying a playthings ... ...
; eye for an eye, but also a male as body
one daytime, we took Toby to the park . Soon, Toby on the pantry and the two girls playing the game. Plastic jug, a small spade, small plates, small bowl placed over the ground. Suddenly, Toby picked up the boiler naughty, hit his pate hard on a girl a bit, the girl froze for a moment, burst into tears. Another youth girl even smaller, see some cases, have been horrified to wail. Toby did not think so probably there will be serious consequences, stood, stunned.
Susan waded up and query the entire matter, she silent, pick up the pot, hard knock to the care than the head, Toby did not prepare, suddenly fell to the grass and cried together. Susan Toby asked: I believe he'll never do that.
Toby's uncle sent him a small blue bike, Toby is like for a newborn, no allowed to touch others. Neighbor girl Lucy is a good friend Toby, Toby solicited several periods to ride to his automobile, Toby did not admit.
time, when several children play together, Lucy not disburse care while Toby and secretly ride car, and sped away. Toby discovered, came to Susan angrily complain. Susan is the mother of several children and conversation with a cup of coffee, he smiled and said:
After a little when, Lucy rode the car back. Toby saw Lucy, one of her fall to the ground, caught the car. Lucy sitting on the ground and explode into tears. Susan picked up Lucy, to appease her because a when. Soon, Lucy and other children to activity happily together.
Toby will be riding their own cars, feel a little bored, saw a few kids play so happy, he wanted to join, and feel a little embarrassed. He rubs up opposition Susan approximately, muttered: ; Lucy Toby rode slowly around the car, reaching her side when they rotated back. Back and ahead several times, do not know when to begin, Toby and Lucy and wreathed in smiles, city center into a team.
parents disciplining their children is a material
Susan's parents live in California State,
PULSERA TRANSPARENTE CON FRANCIA, listened that I came, they drove to visit us. Home to the guests, Toby is very incited to run up and down to earth rampant. He accustom to play with the dirt pail filled with water, put a keg in the house walking around. Susan advised her several times, not to sprinkle water on the layer, Toby ignored. Finally, Toby, or the pail prostrate, and the water spilled over the floor. Excited little Toby do not feel something wrong, but also arrogant to play barefoot stepping water, the pants always watery. I quickly find the mop ready to mop. Susan grabbed the mop from my hands to Toby, he said: Susan apart from everything else, he pulled instantly into arsenal room, closed confinement. Toby heard crying inside the earth-shattering issue, I feel bad bad, want to go prop him out. Toby's grandmother has stopped me, saying: , in the storeroom room where he shouted: storage room out, two lines of his face hanging tears. He picked up two lofty with his mop the floor struggling to tug the water clean. Then he took off his pants, carry in hand, bare ass into the toilet, splinters from the clothes to wash.
Toby's grandparents, I looked surprised expression, significant smile. This entity that made me very well. In numerous Chinese families, when parents penalty their children, constantly occasioned along
after, Toby's grandparents and I chat, he mentioned this, Toby's grandfather, said some words, so that I was impressed. He said that the child is a parent's child, must adore the parents of the child's education. Although a small child, but it is a natural diplomat, when he saw the differences between family members, he will be very smart loophole. This is not merely to enhance his action no benefit, but will guide to increasingly serious problem, and even more other problems. Moreover, the clash between family members, family atmosphere of disagreement will be more insecurity to the child, the child's psychological evolution of harmful effects. Therefore, both parents and grandparents in children's education on the publish of discord, or husband and wife have inconsistencies in philosophy of education, are not in front of children in conflict.
Toby's grandparents lived in the home for a week, prepared to return to California a. Two days before leaving, Toby's grandfather solemnly asked his daughter: give him a pair of roller skates as a gift to Christmas, buy him a gift toy excavator it! Toby's grandfather is not sure how to differentiate the little guy, but then I took Toby to the supermarket, he pointed to the toy excavator,
PULSERA BLANCA CON NETHERLANDS, said: and expectations. Although Susan
so strict aboard Toby, Toby adore to work but then my mama quite, very. He was out playing, it will gather some good flowers alternatively leaves he thinks smart, solemnly given to her mother; others gave him a award, he would call her mother to join him individually; what agreeable namely also always leave half to my mother.
think a lot of Chinese children to their parents neglect and indifference, I must admire my foreign wife. In my view, the child's schooling, the United States has much to her mother Chinese mothers study.
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