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Reprinted from 253684493 at 14:13 on September 16, 2009 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (5) Category: Luan Why are we Sipilailian
of pulling the tail of youth do not get married? The first is a mentality problem, followed by the people's problems, is again a question of money.
80 after us, presumably now Laotaibuxiao, and put children at this age in the liberation of Montreal run. Look around there are many peers marry and have children, you can also have held back most, um, a mention of marriage to twitch! Why are we Sipilailian
of pulling the tail of youth do not get married? Let me think about it.
First, the attitude problem.
in the past, marriage is simply not a thing, one to find a similar age to do, then everyone was poor, simply agile, no one cares about love and more love less. But now that human evolution was more seriously their own children, and what character, family background,
coach women shoes, appearance, work, education, future , or even not as a hobby is not refined, and repeated studies, in-depth study, careful comparison, toss and turn ... ... seeing the complexity of the problem put simply, they magnify the problem! More confused the more refined results, it can not be a marriage to end!
married Well, the two join as a partner to live, had more than a simple matter, hard to create the space shuttle than we confused yet wordy. The recovery of their reasons, I think the purpose of marriage is not simply, and always wanted to get some through marriage, the other added value. Such as houses, cars, but also the future of the good old days. When you want a piece of paper to get a lifetime thing, is quite a bit.
mentality there is a problem, that is, the fear of marriage.
our generation can be regarded as trophy to grow up, I did not experience the war did not survive the hungry, their parents tend to baby, the old feeling is still small, how to get married then? Marriage means children, she was still a child, how he came out the next generation? Now young women are narcissistic enough, to take over the mundane is really so reluctant to let go of youth,
加 紧 研 究 看完后绝对成为电脑高手 太有用了，自己有电脑的不看后悔一辈子 - Qzone日志, boys the same age is less mature, when used to let him Dangdie son suddenly, all of a sudden really adapt.
well- meaning parents,
coach wallet outlet, for our lifetime of happiness that can be heard went to the head, and if the marriage is really the
Also, the modern indifference and the vicissitudes of love, let us hesitate to panic. The most immediate consequence is that many people no longer believe in love, do not believe in commitment, do not even believe in themselves. I could not change even their own future security are not allowed, how to ask others? Divorce, extramarital affair around the illegitimate son of betrayal filled with eyeballs, my marriage can be spared? Besieged there in the end this is good? May enter into a second-hand one, is too cautious.
Second, is a human problem, which is the key. we do not want to marry the people
married, we do not want to marry want to marry. Fanjian people are animals, not to get something though not necessarily good, but it still is an obsession, to please the people into the heart of that supreme be grateful. Be silent about their devotees around is turning a blind eye, holding you, loving you, to really put myself as the emperor, and other conditions, no matter how well felt wronged their own, not always so willing to She got in trouble look on you.
there are some people who neither want to marry people who do not want to marry, the entire service area is not a love,
coach outlet, be love, forgotten corner, hey ... ... if a single pressure also Kangde Zhu, So, is Ningquewulan it, abuse it if such a person to Shoubu Zhu also received a.
marriage no matter how simple, is also a matter of two people, I looked around a person, whom Results ah? Do not tell me you put a blind date blind date that the white prick, with tinted glasses to buy cabbage, do not have one Baji green,
这些歌， 请戴上耳机， 调大音量， 一小我私家听 ... - Qzone日志, purple autumn does not slip.
Finally, a question of money.
this issue, said China also big, small is also small.
poor couple misery, these words must be justified. Money is certainly a lot of young lovers and rank the biggest obstacle. Lang affectionate concubine interested, staff in place, like the Young Pioneers mentality ready, and they love devotion, and anxious to build a nest having children immediately, and can nest where to find this it? That the white house,
coach sneakers, say that white is the money. No money no room, even if the rents have to ask for money, right? Say that marriage is the tomb of love, no house you have no access to even the grave! Victors of it! The so-called sense of belonging to a woman's sense of security, when in love is a reliable shoulder warm embrace, can a married woman to change the flag flew from the more Zhang romantic realism, how was how warm and generous embrace of the now not as good as steel fraction of cement to reality.
ago in rural areas, there can be a happy occasion the inter-tile-roofed house; later generation that we parents, married as long as there is benefit housing; Now, University of universal prosperity of the people, and we even hand, Graduated from college, there is a fixed unit quite good steady income, no matter how good the unit can not get a free house ah. How the house did not get married? If the parents a little family property,
Ten years later ... - Qzone log, the house you are buying a car, and that good fortune, how many students go to school all the money borrowed from the East to fight the West, graduation would like to buy a house? The first 5 years 6 years is also a debt then. Of course, certainly has started from scratch and struggle taught, but when he scratch, you will not be taught how to determine what he will? If you have the eyes that you wait, the way men Dezhi see more novels after his wife abandoned finds no dramas.
addition to the house, the place of marriage for money and more to go, what deposit, bride price, rings, wedding ... everything ... a lot. Said ring it, do not know who invented, anyway, have a wedding! From courtship, engagement, marriage,
coach bags, which had a step missing ring? Can not be a general ring, was a symbol of love is forever the
offer, when you iron the copper even with a plastic straw, a small romantic feelings for a woman that came up also do not care, the total can not be married to such a fool when someone,
coach purses, right? You have the heart to let the bride walked with aluminum ring with you in a rental house ? This point can be a large stone fart I do not know why so valuable to the absolute self-reliance and make a small youth, So, ah, a great longing for marriage of cement and stone, let a few ruin the future.
course, there are opened to see this set of primary care, to mention just do not buy a diamond ring mouth of marriage, not wedding photographs, no feast, the children of a new You save trouble, and may have a few women also want to save trouble ah? Anyway, most women are not enough, be sure to shoot wedding photos, but also good film, hard to beat! Allure is not tilting the country looks I do not disband!
Every family has its cupboard, get married have to vary this. After all, life event, although after 80 experience is still shallow, but we also know how to write Liangzi responsibility. Wish we Duo Zhenzhong, cherish life together in the future do not regret it!
80 after the mainstream of today's society people or people about to become the mainstream of society, the intention of writing this article is to arouse public concern, and 80 times after going to the outside world to our ideas and concept is changing. Too many things we face, who is also the increasingly heavy burden, if this generation disharmony, society can harmony?
world is ours, and also his sons, but ultimately that bunch of grandchildren.
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