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(did not see the students should be reproduced in reading) inscription】 【jin - social communication, presentation and overall quality of speech is a manifestation of a young, successful connections brought about the development of social communication and enhance the public image of self, even unexpected new opportunities. For students to share the following information: (text: jin Add 12783747-- tracking article) -
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Comment: sincere candor】 -
interaction with others, communication skills aside, sincere and frank attitude is the foundation of all. Can not understand technique, but sincerity will trust each other better and accept us. -
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Comment: Be a good listener】 -
we always want to talk to, want to be heard, we are always talking too much, in that case, if we want others to love and speak to us, at least we must first meet the expressed wishes of others, that I seriously listen to the conversations of others . More attention to the speech of others, the more others are willing to talk to us. Therefore, in social occasions, especially their own identity and talking to the same and slightly lower, the greater should be the first to do listener. -
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Comment: listen to the essentials】 listening point is confirmed in carefully listening to and thinking,
doudoune moncler, and to maintain eye contact and appropriate attention given to nod or respond to sure that we did hear the other side of the expression of content. The key is at least eye contact, smiling watching other people's noses, because someone will know her we see him, but not be peering into the eyes will stare at each other uncomfortable. In the table to hear each other speak, to put down the chopsticks was listening, do not also keep their food grilled food, did not seem to eat good things like, eat a few mouthfuls of it does not matter. -
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Comment: good job preparing background information and topics】 -
if possible, be prepared to fight the war. Your skills outside the movies, this sentence inspiration for everyone to do with the exchange of objects prior to gather background information on research, especially for the other side is an identity of people. According to available information, to know each other's bodies, news, preferences, wonderful experience, academic achievements and career taboo topic and so on, so we found more suitable to grasp the topic of communication, and know which topics are not suitable for talks. If we are unsure of the exchange object, at least to prepare and become familiar with the background of social themes relevant to the subject. Finally, a reminder that if we do not have time to prepare, can use the mobile Internet search for background information immediately, or send text messages to friends and message them to help check our most critical information. -
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Comment: to enhance their breadth of knowledge and reserve】 -
people want to adopt and communicate a meaning, so that the value of the exchange more information. Therefore, knowledge of their quality must be accumulated, usually solid learning at the same time to experiment widely with a variety of fields of knowledge and information, including technology, politics, sports, art, finance, and livelihood. Our knowledge of the reserves will make conversation more rich and gold, at least people to talk about the topic, we can have some common language to increase the ratio. -
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Comment: avoid one-way to encourage interactive communication】 -
Since it is a social occasion, not the report is to allow everyone to express views. Express their own points of view should not be long winded, should be kept simple and appropriate to consult each other through the point of view, making communication more interactive and make each other a sense of participation, can make the whole process more attractive and harvest the same time impressive. Avoid rude to interrupt conversations, even if they have something to leave or have a special topic to be raised, it should also observe the proper opportunity to put forward. -
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Comment: balance of modesty and self-confidence】 -
self-confidence will make you more equal social and natural, but not rebellious, while for young people to maintain a youthful passion. But in social situations we learn as the younger generation should reflect the modest late, can we hear more valuable advice and guidance. Here is to encourage self-confidence more generous we can express their views. -
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Comment: to maintain the respect and courtesy, and body language】 -
no one is willing to deal with do not respect themselves, young people should remain open-minded attitude and respect for talking to. Maintain an appropriate social distance, must not scrape together too close or too far to communicate with each other to maintain the comfort of distance, to observe each other to determine whether the reaction can generally be appropriate. Conversation manners of young people should be kept upright sunlight, not reflect the loose slack off, appropriate use of their own positive body language, but also to understand each other's body cues. For the safety of body language and social distance, you can search for more online -
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Comment: adaptation and identity of the dress occasions】 -
for students and academic background in the campus social environment, the basic point of clothing is clean and not exaggerated at least,
doudoune femme moncler, unless the party is to make special clothing and other needs. Formal occasions, not sportswear appearance, it should be formal, such as suits, suits, girls make-up makeup area; reception occasion may require more advanced dress and heavy makeup. Dress is a personal taste and lifestyle of the expression, encourage students to understand and improve the taste of this. -
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Comment: ready for simple self-introduction and business card】 -
selling yourself is also important props in addition to the basic topic of your prepared outside, that is, there should be a very refined to give you a deep impression, and people remember your story; of course, a business card to a better props , but you have to take good care of each other's business cards, you'd better bring your own card. I have seen students business cards by hand, can; if printed boxes reflect their own talents and characteristics of the student card is a good way. If you are in some cases to some big shot and remember to leave a good impression on you, may your future is a good bedding. -
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Comment: keep in mind those who have had more interaction with your name and basic information】 -
remember the name of others is always important. If you do not remember, to be honest with a small book or record on the phone to each other's characteristics and the corresponding key information on this person, so the next time also recognize each other, take the initiative to call each other, will make the other impression deep and feel good. A little trick is to consult the other photo, this will have a better record and information. -
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Comment: taboo themes and vulgar language and humor to promote wisdom and enlightenment】 -
firmly opposed to any vulgar language topics and foul language. Can speak vulgar joke story was nothing glorious, is not the embodiment of cultivation and low quality. We should be positive on weekdays to enhance the training content. jin also like humor, but they are ideas and inspiring stories and wisdom with humor and jokes. -
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Comment: observe and learn】 -
itself is a social occasion the opportunity to learn and improve, we can see all types of people learn from their textbooks outside the classroom without the knowledge and skills. Therefore, observe and learn to keep the heart,
moncler doudoune vente, can make learning and improving more, the range includes not only information, contacts, expression, but also the attitude of behavior and interaction with others. -
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【High suggestions: greetings in advance and after the visit】 -
If we really thought, and talks should be in advance of communication and expression of the object and the subject of meeting expectations. Such as email, phone or text messages to each other, said the meeting looked forward to seeing you ? ? ? can be face to face consult ? ?. In the talks, the more important that the talks should follow a greeting party talks on the expression of the harvest, and looking forward to the follow-up contact and interaction. These are very professional business-level approach. Students can also apply. -
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【High suggestions: maintenance and database administrator clock】 -
opportunity to always be there for the people, they keep their own people on the pulse of the accumulation and maintenance, regular maintenance of contacts, this is the contacts database. In addition to contact and basic information, which should also be recorded pictures, related web pages, birthday, when what the theme of communication, the other's preferences, home, schools,
moncler homme, professionals,
doudoune hommes, etc. will help us communicate and work of the future lingua franca of the information. -
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】 【Postscript and recommendations of the above methods, only bit by bit, where there will be incomplete. Students can see full depth of books has introduced another valuable online to find more information and a wealth of related topics. However, all efforts are to improve their social level, so everyone in the practice of learning and flexible application of the more important. Students, come on! - (If you have a harvest, please recommend more friends to share plus 12783747-- tracking article)
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