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sixteen other interpersonal life experiences ------ (absolute useful) return
interpersonal experience ( absolutely useful)
1. no matter what happens, we must first think that he is not wrong. If your right (it is not possible), then stand each other's point of view, to experience each other's feelings.
2. allow yourself to adapt to the environment because the environment never to meet you. Even if this is a very, very painful process.
3. generous. School will not be generous generous. If the generous really make you very distressed, then install generous.
4. low-key that some low-key, and then a little low-key (also low-key than the temporary workers, possibly in the eyes of others you do not like a few of the temporary workers it did).
5. mouth to sweet, usually do not begrudge you cheer. (Will praise people. A good compliment, would create the sense of pleasure, but not too far to the offensive.)
6. If you feel that the most recent work incredibly smoothly, you should add careful.
7. polite. Say hello when you look at each other's eyes. To call the elders and older people to communicate, because you are out-kid generation.
8. Shaoshuiduozuo. Loose lips sink ships, talk less crowded places.
9. Do not put other people's good, granted, you know Thanksgiving.
10. hand-low high eye.
11. comply with the time, but do not expect others to comply with time.
12. believe the first promise, but do not easily promise. Not to put someone on your commitment to always keep in mind and believed it.
13. Do not borrow money from colleagues, if you borrow, then it must be on time also.
14. Do not lend money to colleagues, if you have to take, then give him a good while.
15. Do not shirk responsibility (even someone else's responsibility).
16. in the back of a colleague not to say bad things about another colleague. To uphold the good word to say that someone in the back, do not worry about good things does not reach the ears of the parties. If someone in front of you saying bad things about someone, you have to smile.
17. to avoid open confrontation and co-workers (including public objections, the intensity of more desirable.)
18. always help others, but can not be helping people to feel that life should be.
19. tell the truth will make you Daoda Mei.
20. not the person; or something cruel, for people to love; or life first, work second.
21. Always check that they are not and arrogant, and proud, and they look down on someone else. (Even if you did not have Babel cooperation and assistance of others is no good)
22. Patience is a required course in life. (Be patient life ah, some people a lifetime to die in this course does not pass)
23. New to a place, do not rush into the circle which one to go. Wait until enough time, that part of your circle will automatically accept you.
24. there is a sense of balance. No big deal, a good thing to go bad thinking, bad things to the benefit of thought.
25. Try not to place an office romance, if it can not be avoided, then in the office to avoid any form of physical contact, including eyes.
26. will be flattering (this is the immediate supervisor and one important way of communication), but be careful not to dirty your hands.
27. qualification is very important. Do not eye the old guys playing a battle of wits, or die hard to see you back.
28. good intentions sometimes do not have good results, but not disheartened.
29. to be on the King, to be the next to wide.
30. If you lead a team, in summarizing the work should errors taking on himself, take the credit for the subordinate body. When the presence of supervisors and subordinates at the same time remember that timely recognition of your subordinates. When people have to criticize only the two of you in the case to proceed.
how to deal with workplace interpersonal relationships
a career in a very important issue, especially for large corporations professional people, good human relations is necessary for life comfortable working conditions for peace of mind. Today's graduates, the vast majority of child, just out of school, self-conscious, to the great social wrong complicated environment, human relations should be adjusted in their coordinates.
on the boss - after the first run
respect of any employer (including department heads, project managers, management representatives), dried to the position, at least some of the extraordinary place. Their rich experience and yes, politics strategy, are worth learning from, and we should respect their wonderful past and impressive performance. But every boss is not perfect. So at work, only to listen to the Siming is not necessary, but should also keep in mind that comments to the supervisors in their jobs only a small part, try to improve, improvements, new step towards the ultimate goal. Let the boss willingly accept your point of view, should respect the atmosphere, polite and restrained in a measured in sync. However, questions and comments made, be sure to come up with a detailed enough to convince each other's data plan.
of colleagues - to understand more cautious support
work in the office, get along with my colleagues a long time, for each of the between the interests, hobbies, living conditions,
pandora beads, have a certain understanding. As colleagues, we have no reason for their loyalty to the effectiveness of demanding people. In the event of misunderstandings and disputes, they must be from another angle, standing on each other's position for the people think and understand about the plight of others, do not emotional, to shake out of people's privacy. Any talk behind and oblique accusations, eventually in the process of demeaning the other generous damage the image of his own, and by others in the conflict. Meanwhile, the work we have to have a sincere passion, you must choose carefully to colleagues to support. Support means to accept other people's views and ideas, and blindly support can only lead to blind obedience, the suspects will be breeding a clique, affect decision-making trust.
friends - good communication ground contact
the saying goes: move trees die, people move to live. Fierce competition in modern society, the iron rice bowl no longer exists, a person less likely in the same unit his life. Therefore, it is necessary to pay more friends, the so-called friends more good one thing. Therefore, the idle time to a friend hang a phone, write a letter, send an e-mail, even if only a word, a friend will be grateful for, than to involve everyone with front more meaningful.
I have a friend in a difficult moment big talent show, and I feel depressed. Friends, after that, invited him to try a slightly smaller enterprises, the results themselves, and promoted within six months of the department heads, the benefits of this is to make friends. A phone call, a greeting to friends, closer to the heart, so kind friends, have a good chance you can not first take care of it?
subordinates - to listen more to help small
in working life, only the differences in positions, they are nothing but personality are equal. Staff and subordinates in front of us was just a leader with class only, there is nothing which may not be the glory and pride of place. Help subordinates, in fact, help yourself, because employees have the enthusiasm to play better, work will be completed survived well, and let you get more respect, and establish an open-minded image.
and listen more to appreciate the work of subordinates in the state of mind and understanding of the situation,
pandora charm, for accurate feedback, change management provides a detailed basis. A famous person in charge of the U.S. company said: When a dispute with a subordinate managers, and leaders do not listen patiently to ease that most of the subordinates do not listen to the command, my first thought is to replace the department managers.
to competitors - a grin
work in our lives, there are many competing opponents. Many people around the fortification of competitors or, worse, the cold might also behind to \This extreme,
pandora uk, it will only widen the interval between each terrace, to create tension, the work is undoubtedly detrimental than good. In fact, a whole, each person's work is important, everyone has a lovely shines. When you ahead of the competition, no need to contempt for others, others are also seeking progress; when people above you, you do not have to deliberately creating confusion, finding fault, because work is all united effort, \No matter how you embarrassed opponents, do not tell him rivalry, gently grinning, Jing Xiaxin first hands to do a good work! Maybe he is standing still, grievances, and you have completed an excellent performance. Grinning, both liberal tolerant, generous style, there is a open-minded in a good mood, but also about lost it? Perhaps opponents had surrendered to you in the heart of a man sixteen
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1: life Do not be loaded, to distinguish between iron and steel. Fast changing times, sooner or later injured.
2: Do not rush life, only hundreds of years. For ambitious exhibition, all in life.
3: Do not be afraid suffering will eventually be happy. If you are afraid to suffer and be poor belong to you.
4: Do not Pareto life, somehow inflicting. You want easy, do it disabled.
5: Do not Pazang life, can be weak also strong. Today is the dirty spots, good Kenjiro tomorrow.
6: Do not be afraid setbacks, to see him and me. Would like to have wishful day, you do not get angry.
7: man do not love of money,
pandora sale, you will always come. Now to take advantage, you bury money.
8: Do not Jieduan life, beating not fight face. Offending people today and tomorrow at risk.
9: life Do not be evil, there is a new day. If you want to play people, mountains outside the mountain.
10: Do not angry life, Gas big liver and kidney damage. Harmony to make friends, End of the World was asked.
11: life Do not slip, like the mess themselves. Calculated every day people, sooner or later have to pay to drop.
12: life Do not be silly, people riding good horses special. Too old-fashioned things, sooner or later have to be playing.
13: a man not too bad, no one you love. So this way before, sooner or later have to pay the kick.
14: a man not too lazy to pick often missed. Nothing more than hard work, why should I take the risk.
15: a man not naive, childish does not work. Mature and see the world, Mirs to wings.
16: Do not promiscuous life, love on the line. In case people wanted to love, sorrow will be hurt.
improve your self-cultivation, 100 words
1. choose the right person to pay, choose the good books and reading, choose the right words, and listen, choose the good from the line.
2. a person's happiness, not because he owns, but because he was less about.
3. angry, that is, to punish the mistakes of others themselves. To forgive others is to treat yourself.
4. may not be more happy more money, financial worries and more tired and had strokes. Poor Lock Road is truly free, unencumbered Fest.
5. picnickers often think has been, and talked of human non-Mo, can suffer is for the Patriots, is not willing to lose idiot, Respect party was virtuous gentleman, afraid of bad people is not incompetent, take a step back from day Heights width, so that the three points calmly, like progress to be thinking backward,
pandora bracelets sale, first consider if the start to let go, such as not re proud to, all things should be Yubu. Holding gold as precious, to know peace side Zhiqian Jin, something imminent think the best, most patient anger got the idea. Not greedy windfall, people are often happy contentment. If something in this place, A lifetime of happiness Unknown Pleasures.
6. doing things do not seek power, power is not over. Man without a sense of morality, no complaint is Germany.
7. Peace is fortunate that, contentment is a blessing, a pure heart is Paul, a few desires life.
8. one of the heart, more like the narrow, few desires are wide.
9. rather poor from the music, not the rich multi-voiced worries.
10. advised to retire by the deep thinking, when you can be proud off strong.
11. the potential not to do, not enjoy the blessing, not ideally cheap, smart, not exhausted.
12. the stone, not force, but that effort deep.
13. his life not to frown thing the world should not gear people.
14. be submitted to the proper way of the people, the Friends of Mo Results nonsense. Quiet drink the tea, Mo greed color of wine. Open the door, the mouth of a non-idle.
15. multi-room door of the wind, dwell on the misfortune of life.
16. things headlong such as water, hanging off the fame heart. Going off bread and water, wealth and glory it up.
17. \Things that can often enough, the heart always cheerful, people high on the face of No Desire.
18. Life is good talk to people over evil; life has been to fool the evil smell.
19. Doing no wrongs done to pursue the public good, to good rather than Mo, Mo with a small evil to do this.
20. Mo jealous his long, long jealous, you have the short end. Mo has been nursing a short, shield their mistakes, then the end does not have long.
21. Work need not be popular with, and is not different with the vulgar. Hi people do not do things, nor is passion.
22. There are two things that can not wait: First, filial piety. Second, to do good.
23. Keep an equal mind, to facilitate the matter, the world without incident. Pregnant compassion, mercy to do something, then the hearts of peace.
24. Pettiness, the more trouble the mind, the general, intellectual richness.
25. No matter who may be hiding his life, this is a big fast.
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27. Solid as a good thing week acute distress. Can not boast, its Dehou now!
28. Case of good times, at the indifferent, the case of adversity, take it easy.
29. Right and wrong every day, do not listen to nature without.
30. Facial stimuli, not the real treat. Inner serenity, is the place to start.
31. Good people, although not to the blessing, moved away from the disaster; people evil, evil though not to, Fu has gone away.
32. Do not pretend to, the peace of mind, do not jump to do so, the body safe.
33. Those who do not behave, take shame. Not from the elderly, to take drugs. Those who are not complacent, benefit. Those who are not self-sufficient, CMP.
34. MPF left to future generations, future generations may not be able to keep; volume book on the children and grandchildren, descendants may not be able to read. As hidden virtue in somewhere, which was also Jesus Christ heirloom training.
35. Jide for the industry, rather than strong U.S. House farmland.
36. A heart of love is a blessing, can eliminate the worry has wisdom.
37. Physical security as peace of mind, big house as a generous heart.
38. Romans, Julius Caesar, Megatron three continents Europe, Asia, dying to tell the waiter said: \Ming Ming dreams have fun, feel empty after no Daqian.
40. children have their own luck, Mo worries for the children and grandchildren to do much.
41. Love Shengzhi separated.
42. to conquer the world, and not great, but a man can conquer himself is the greatest person in the world.
43. to minimize the desire of their own, rational distillation of his own to the highest point, is the sage.
44. jealous others, hostile alien, it means their lives to others.
45. A person who is not habit-dyed, well nearly carry.
46. slander others, like the slanderous accusations, first their own pollution mouth.
47. hate others, suffering is their own.
48. reason why ordinary people, is not beyond their own.
49. potbellied, but a lot of headaches down barriers, smiles can be skim, formed immeasurable joy margin.
50. to change themselves, the self-help, influence people, is to save.
51. lie like a blossoming flower, looks beautiful, life is short.
52. Only in respect of themselves, is more courage to humble themselves.
53. people do not seek happiness, Sri Lanka without drugs. people do not seek profits, Sri Lanka harmless.
54. wise to seek along sometimes, and sometimes action against the fool .
55. often blame themselves, often to get the understanding of others.
56. See has not, the door to all good. to see people not, Zhu Wu root.
57. to learn a sub-concession to discuss a point lower. by one point to enjoy, subtraction Fukuzawa.
58. idea correct, Fuxing Pro, the idea is not correct, good wife photo.
59. good man doing good, from music to music, from the Ming into the next. wicked evil, from pain into suffering, from deep into the underworld.
60. deal a person, life will be long. heart carved who will promote life.
61. bones should be just, gas should be flexible , Chi Yee, gallbladder should be small, the heart should be empty, the words should be real, by Hui Yi, Fu Yi Xi, consider a short, worry is also near.
62. bitter is the best medicine, grate on the ear must be good advice. turn over will Wisdom. Justifying non-heart-yin.
63. you now have, as you will be the death of others. then why not now Give it to those who really need it?
64. people reason for suffering, is the pursuit of the wrong things.
65. The greatest enemy is ourselves. Our greatest failure is arrogant. The greatest folly is cheating. life is the most pathetic jealousy. biggest mistake in life is the low self-esteem . The greatest pain is crazy. The greatest shame is flatter. life is the most dangerous situation is the greed. life's most troubling is the contention fame. The greatest sin is self-deception. life is the most pathetic inferiority complex nature. the largest bankruptcy in life despair. greatest debt is debt. the greatest sin is killing. life's most appalling is fornication. life is the most virtuous behavior is dedication. the greatest happiness is to let go. is the greatest comfort in life giving. life greatest gift is forgiveness. life is the most sophisticated and worthy. The greatest wealth is health. life is the enjoyment of the highest Buddhist. the greatest joy in life is to pray to Buddha.
66. heart lucky Ye Hao, wealth until old. life kind is not good, blessing into curse trillion. heart lucky bad, bad into good fortune.
life with a bad heart, the poor suffer and die prematurely. heart can pull almost life, the most to save humanity. Real life made in the heart, good or bad move man,
believe in fate does not cultivate the heart, yin and yang fear of virtual correction. cultivating also take orders, world autocorrelation Paul.
67. reticent raise gas, few things repose, few think raising Fine, few read cultivation.
68. change others, change first.
69. grateful to harm you, because he honed your mind.
grateful to cheat you, because he enhance your experience.
grateful for your lashes, because he eliminate your karma.
grateful abandoned your people, because he taught you to be independent.
grateful for your trip, because he strengthens your ability.
grateful to blame you, because he contributed to your wisdom.
grateful to all successful people make you strong.
70. Bono lost in the moment, regret in the past . saints consciousness at the moment, relief in the future.
71. abstinence ring anger, is Paul shenfa, convergence quiet, is the household management method, random nature, is the easy way law, to do good cultivation of the mind is born law. keep these four methods , the outcome accessible.
72. Life is like a drama, because the affinity to get together again. catching to the old is not easy, whether it is more treasure to go. In order to small temper, look back and think why. I'm not angry people angry , no gas for the sick. I'm mad at who, if wishful? Moreover lot of trouble and effort. neighbors than do parents, children and grandchildren trivia charged with this matter, suffer with pleasure, the envy of a good fairy companion.
73. forbearance people can not tolerate, pedestrians do not. Name: \not small. Renqi no less than heart health, life-long suffering of your wound, there is no harm to people one step, large Fuk no trouble.
75. Han Shan asked Lost: the world was slander me, bully me, insult me, and laughed at me, Light me,
pandora jewelry, jian me, How do I place on? Keepers said: As long as forbearance him, avoid him, and by his resistance, he will not mind him, a few years, you let me see him.
76. forbearance while, calm, step back, a brighter future.
77. evil is a plowshares, good mud, good man often evil bully, a bad mid-iron plow, and no Tanaka for mud.
78. gas is no open flame, tolerance is the enemy of good wife, but stay Fangcun Di, to the children of farming.
79. you can \can at all, a good winner, will Yudi.
81. do not think there are always lost, one can B��i R��n from worry.
82. right and wrong to not argue for the release, in order to shame the wisdom of trouble, work to do our best to active.
83. Mazda into the bear, instead of to argue, as may be able to.
84. wounding of the language, such as water covered land, it is difficult to restore.
85. maintaining a good heart, that is, always a good day.
86. It is better then less, then less is better, then good.
87. have reason to forgive, the rationale for going to straight gas.
88. not afraid of many things, I'm afraid more things.
89. True Giving is to worry, anxiety, respectively, attached to put everything aside.
90. a thought down, the worth of ease.
91. Buddhism is learning to be human. Buddhism is completed method of awakening life, practice is to correct his own behavior, thoughts, opinions.
92. saints seeking heart, do not metion; fool metion not for the heart.
93. Bono switch does not turn the heart border. saints turn the heart do not switch environment.
94. to know \
96. If such Cultivators, seen the world over.
97. A wise man knows that from the magic, the fantasy is true fool.
98. the world and promising method, such as the mist in a dream, such as dew electricity, should be be the same.
99. Buddhism is not bad kids, not the elderly dementia Buddhism, Buddhist, youth and never lost.
100. at time obsolete regret, regret white hair and black hair not to learn. satyric gambling cause trouble regret, security is not to rate disease at regret. the official line of bribery caused the crime regret, the rich do not thrifty poor when the regret. unfilial parents get older regret the victims do not help something regret. Fixed not think twice about imminent regret, the blind rush the wrong time regret .
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