After the tragedy, Huang was the subject of mother to face the camera a look of loss and helplessness.
This is Xiao Li went to the school during his lifetime, starting from the first two days, her life changed gradually.
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2010 年 4 月 25 at 16 am, Panyu District, Guangzhou City, Shigang Dong Village a company called After that, he cut himself with a knife than 20 in an attempt to commit suicide. November 18, 2010, the Guangzhou Intermediate People's Court of First Instance ruling of intentional homicide Huang mark awarded life imprisonment.
Valentine's Day, the reporter in-depth visits to family parties, to restore the young lovers, after which 90 were from the online dating parents opposition to both run away, and ultimately as many chores of life after an argument, the boy suspected his girlfriend empathy Do not love the staged murder,
tragedies like this happen?
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200 women braved rush drivers convicted of intenti, according to Huang confessed: He and Xiao Li QQ chat through awareness around August 2009 after the two meet, develop into male and female friendships, but they were Xiaoli and from family opposition, so the two to have several
Later, Xiao Li family want her to study the three townships Zhongshan City, he was afraid she'll never find out, so they run away together once again, decided to go to work to live together in Foshan . April 21, 2010, they are ready to ride to Foshan, Panyu Square, came as near the right train, then walk with him on a street looking for an apartment to live in Shek Kong.
4 23 evening, Xiao Li proposed to continue to find work there, Foshan, and he considered that the body is not much money, want to find work in Panyu stabilized, the two got into a fight. April 25 at 2 pm, two men wake up, another thing to go to Foshan, noisy, Xiao Li scolded him not sell it to him after the meal they simply watch TV. He goes to the bathroom alone, broken mirrors, cut glass near the right vein, the flow of blood. Before long, Xiao Li also went to call the landlord, also called a 120 ambulance. Later, he said nothing of the landlord, so that 120 ambulances to leave.
Then, the streets of his own cigarettes, casually stroll for about an hour, back to the room, the two violent quarrel, Xiao Li said that if would not let her go to Foshan to kill her, he very angry. Xiao Li insisted on going to Foshan, have friends over there, and that first home to get things back to Zhongshan. And he found Xiaoli and development information as well as the usual phone call to play QQ is very mysterious, not let him see and hear, it was suspected that she knew of other boys on the outside, afraid she would leave, so they have to kill her and then committed suicide idea.
Huang mark claimed April 24 Xiao Li said that if she wanted to die for in three ways: 1. Sleeping pills; 2. Buy one suicide; 3. Hand throttle. So he chose to hand to strangle her and then committed suicide. Nominal Huang, Xiao Li was no resistance.
, he went downstairs to the supermarket to buy a fruit knife, returned to his room after the cut to his arm, his hands more than 20 knife. He thinks this can be suicide, but an hour later he was sober. Because it is afraid of body pains, and would like their parents, so he called his uncle.
boy with a disability, poor farmers body baby
Huang was born in Standard 7 February 1991, lives in the town of Zhongshan City, a remote rural people. There is a house just on the first day of her sister Kitty, a family of four squeezed about 20 square meters in the one-bedroom red brick cottage. Independent outside a wooden houses built, which only a bed, a corner is filled with debris.
parents are uneducated themselves . The couple broke up in the plastic factory workers.
Speaking of his son, Yang is not only guilty, but also helpless. Because my family was too poor to drop out of school two days of Huang mark, and then roll to a nearby factory workers. She and her husband have no culture, do not know how to educate children, Huang standards for a reporter asked the usual habits of personal behavior and character, Yang is avoided.
Yang said that in 2010, ten days before the Lunar New Year, the son said to her knowledge through the mobile Internet, a girl named Xiao Li, and later took her home, looking very good relationship. Yang believes that the relationship between son and Xiao Li is very good, she is not against them as a parent contacts, but Xiao Li's parents do not agree.
his little lame nickname But people who know him know that he strangled his girlfriend to do, and are used to call him
As to why the lame, the village has a variety of claims. Companion of similar age, said Huang standards often go out and fight, is fighting for playing time was lame. Villagers also said that due to his Tuiji is sick. Despite different opinions, but they said the Huang family has always insisted to his standard treatment of leg and spent a lot of money; Tuiji is cured a lot of the family are getting poorer. Guangzhou Intermediate People's Court judge, also confirmed that Huang standard walk a little lame, but it is not obvious.
Xiaoli parents. She knew immediately met Xiao Li, Xiao Li also insisted that recognition of pregnancy to give birth to children. She was the first study suggested Xiaoli, because too young to flow. Son should be born child. On the wrong result after his son stormed the motorcycle to go with Xiao Li.
separated a few days, Xiao Li about her parents, two children meet to discuss things and try to find them. Soon the mother found her daughter Xiao Li, and people do not let her children, and Xiao Li away.
the trial, nominal Xiaoli Huang was with him of running away from home,
belstaff jacket, the two sides have agreed that we'd die together, is similar to suicide. And he does not restrict personal freedom Xiao Li, Xiao Li in the killing, she did not even resist.
girl is a good first two days of girl children left behind
reporter was informed that the incident wave front Xiaoli network in a secondary school. The beginning of secondary school advised that Xiao Li is the left-behind children, and seven-year-old's grandparents live in the town of the people, their parents do business in the three towns and sister out to work. Go to school because of the generation gap inadvertently caused, on the first two days on the proposed withdrawal and, ultimately, help school leaders, Xiao Li to love high school in three towns.
boy against his mother has shown signs of interaction
reporter contacted the aunt Feng Xiao Li's mother, although the incident has been nearly eight months,
belstaff jacken, but the mention of the daughter, Feng aunt broke down in tears on the phone immediately.
von aunt statements in the public security organs that Huang first met in the standard, they do not agree to stand face to face contact was. Because underage daughter is reading age. Standard text messaging Huang, said her daughter liked to call her, she would commit suicide to leave, threatening tone. He has been talking about suicide, then her daughter will not go to study. Later, the house where her daughter to school to fight over things.
a letter left behind by his daughter away, meaning Then the family has been calling to find her, but only received a text message back her phone, said that he very good. Then her daughter's friend Huang Mouwen recruited, the daughter said she wanted to go home, but grabbed her neck Huang mark not let her, controlling her.
sister said the girl, For nominal and Xiaoli Huang ######ual gratification, only to run away to say objection, Xiao Li Huang mark Rage is lying. .
kind and was only a If you do not meet,
belstaff online, he would commit suicide. He is self-inflicted death! care, we found the people directly home, his mother has said that she would like to let her in here! fact, simply by their stress. Hsiao believes that Hsiao almost cried, saying, Huang family has not talked about the last part of standard I'm sorry to say. The mother said Xiao Li Huang had marked pregnancy and abortion, Many experts refer to online dating blinded by the truth to be parents of a minor interference
mark appears in Huang, Xiao Li is his only life, as faithless, than crash and burn. Crippled psychologically because of lack of proper guidance has not been so marked a step by step toward the extreme Huang.
case, prosecutors believe that lack of communication between parents and children, and even laissez-faire behavior is the root of the tragedy. Psychological experts believe that both parents have the wrong place, and root causes are not know how to teach children refused to online dating. Experts urge parents
court found
not the same as pregnancy,
belstaff motorcycle jackets, nor the fact of suicide
Guangzhou Intermediate People's Court examined, Zhao Xiaoli Huang indeed had told the landlord to commit suicide standard and told him to go up, do you get through the 120 reported emergency. According to the testimony of Xiao Li and Huang Han Huang Mouwen friends marked his confession, the court held, Huang and his defenders marked the two suicide pacts made with the identification of the facts.
Although labeled an attempted suicide call the Huang family, but the court found that he did not take the initiative to surrender, nor take the initiative to accurately account for their own personnel to the crime scene, it has not voluntarily surrendered themselves. Huang called because standard to the families did not ask them to help the police.
Zhang reported to police confirmed that an administrator take them directly to the room, knocked on the door half a minute, but no one response, then Huang marked the police even after knowing that he open the door. Dr Lam also confirmed the presence of his request of the police, to check on the Xiao Li, Xiao Li he asked how the dead, Huang did not tell the true cause of death scale.
Guangzhou Research Institute spokesman said the victim if the parties have made situations such as pregnancy, abortion, the public security authorities will be investigating. However, the autopsy case reports, and pregnant or had abortions did not show the test results, showing that the claim does not have the authenticity.
As for the court to life imprisonment sentence was based on the final,
belstaff leather, the spokesman said, the judges first consider the case is accidental, Huang repentance marked with a certain performance, but did not really guilty. And the families of the victims marked the families of Huang made a hundred thousand dollars of compensation for such families is already a big number. General considerations, not capital punishment.
dialogue Prosecutor
even suicide pacts still bear responsibility
2010 年 10 26, the Guangzhou Municipal People's Procuratorate Deputy Prosecutor assigned to appear in support of prosecution Victoria River accused of committing intentional homicide Huang standards. Huang for a more objective understanding of the subject of character, the reporter interviewed the JAC. JAC believes that its lack of communication between parents and son, and even laissez-faire son's behavior is the root of the tragedy.
Information Times: whether their parents are opposed to the two exchanges?
Jiang dimension: more fierce against the families of some victims.
Information Times: How do you think of his character? To make such acts have nothing to do with the family environment?
Jiang D: I feel he is a somewhat introverted person, education is not high. Through the testimony of his parents did run, he was not too concerned. For the relationship between him and the victim, I feel his parents is a vague and not really to stop, more of a laissez-faire of his behavior. His parents are of peasant origin, education level is very low.
Information Times: He's such killings are harmful to the society?
Jiang D: results from the decision point of view, should be taken into account, after all, they are boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, which in a closed environment, the danger is relatively small, between them are disputes. Moreover, there is no direct evidence of how he was killed by the victim, only by the case of other evidence to prove that he has to escape, non-recognition of intentional killings. In addition, he defended himself and the defender made suicide pacts in court arguments, but I think he is still a deliberate act of murder, even if there is similar evidence that they both committed suicide, still have to bear the criminal responsibility of intentional homicide.
Information Times: Why did not the court his parents do?
Jiang D: I feel also a bit strange, the parties are living in a town which, in rural areas there are more people may be familiar, may also be embarrassed over his parents, or a little ashamed of it! Another point is that his son this way, for he was a bit disappointed.
Information Times: Court, he pleaded guilty for his actions attitude?
Jiang dimension: his confession in court before the public security organs with the later statement is consistent with, or how truthfully admitted his murder victims, and victims, and in contradiction, and then kill the process.
Information Times: At that time he did not say regret, in the end is how the mind?
Jiang D: I feel he is a bit introverted, in the final examination stage, I said you act on your own to see how now? At that time he has been silent, cry later, but never to answer questions. There should be some regret, because he was crying is very severe, the victim's mother also asked the court next. He answered my questions with questions of how to kill the victim,
16 -year-old waitress to accompany the guests to drink too much death, including the presentation of evidence later, and in my opinion he made his indictment, he is very excited mood. And he is just a 19-year-old child, and now finds he is intentional homicide, might be considered would be sentenced to death or very serious crimes.
psychologists
Internet just can not talk about feelings
girl's letter opinion, a lack of emotional communication is an important reason for the tragedy. Guangdong Institute of Mental Health Research Office of Qiyuan Li psychological behavior of children that parents evasive Huang mark, or even lie a problem of principle. First Xiao Li is a minor, whether it is puppy love or live-out, adults have an obligation to protect and guide his son, notice to the other.
found puppy love problems, Xiao Li received the side of her parents, her daughter ran away to protect her back is the right move. The problem is the lack of emotional exchange with her daughter. to break her, Now that it must manage to really let her go out, not let her have the opportunity to run away again and again.
Qiyuan Li against the courtship, pointing out that . She believes that in the virtual exchanges, along with increased investment in each other, will form a psychological suggestion, did not believe will gradually convinced. Can make friends online, already the largest scale, and even if face to face contacts are likely to deceive friends, leaked the information on the network is quite scary.
As parents, how to guide children, Qiyuan Li pointed out that the most important reason is made clear to him after the age of 18 have to judge the relative ability of minors should intervene as soon as possible, methods, and no if not more effect, to find a professional. Usually let the child develop healthy patterns of life, many people