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- a man's conservation
1, not from the lofty
always other able men as more capable of being indifferent to Ming, quiet attitude when others treat you as leadership, myself not to think of myself as leader when others do not treat you as the lead, he must make their power is the moment when the leadership, money is beyond the flesh of the body is their own, life is long.
2, do not blindly committed to action
true to its word planted seeds of the harvest will be used to planted will reap a character used will reap the fate of character - used to create one.
3,
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think of myself as others - to reduce pain, dull ecstasy to others when their own - Unfortunately, compassion, understanding others when people need to - to respect the independence of non-infringement of others to themselves as their own - value their own and be happy to know others is a kind of wisdom, knowledge can be a blessing to others, to their own understanding of their sage is a sage.
4, this is not to impose
people who do not have to deliberately do this is a dead world, without life skills carefully to the three realms of life: to see a hill, watching the water water - people beginning to see is not always to see if water is not water - middle-aged people to see the mountains or the mountains, watching the water or water - back to nature.
5, do not make fun of other people
damage to his personality, happy moment, hurt the overall life of the interdependence of life, the world relies on every other thing the other thing, be grateful. Nature blessed Thanksgiving, Thanksgiving parenting, social stability Thanksgiving, Thanksgiving food is sweet, the warm clothing Thanksgiving, Thanksgiving flowers, fish and insects, Thanksgiving suffering adversity.
6, do not hurt the body temper tantrums
one, two hurt the feelings of people in the birth and death are equal - crying in the past, crying and going. Do pay attention to his reluctant, while others have been decided long ago that life should go to Italy to see three mountains: Mount Putuo Jinggangshan Babaoshan take a step backward, and tolerance against heartbroken too many complaints regarding the calm, always advisable and see .
7, not lip service
Loose lips sink ships, silence is gold listening is a kind of wisdom, a kind of self-cultivation, a respect, a communication and peace of mind is a state of mind, a mature
8, do not underestimate the beauty instrument
sow, harvest of happiness is a mood meter, power meter is a kind of beauty in their own look at the same time, let others enjoy the beauty Mind Yoga - adaptation, cultivation, and beyond.
9, Do not close yourself
help others is a noble human being is a open-minded understanding of forgiveness is a virtue serving people who are a Happy full moon is the kind of poetry, the moon is a flower, looking a spring bow is the fall.
10, do not bully honest people
compassion for the weak is a character, a state, a kind of harmony mental health, physical health can have a sub-tolerance, they have a point little more temperament temperament, they have a little more popular sub popularity, they cause a little more charitable as Germany, self-cultivation.
--- open-minded life
two happy life
There are two
happy life.
One joy of life, such as health, family, and nature of the blend, which is life itself needs to be full of joy.
the other is spiritual happiness, including the intellectual, emotional and beliefs of happiness, which is one of the advanced properties are full of joy. Social stimulation from material desires, not life itself brings its course is a pleasure to meet, however, with the joy of life than it is too shallow, and spirit of happiness than it is too low.
companion
in a long journey, it is best to have a desirable companion, then there is no better traveling companion, the worst is to have a non-desirable traveling companion.
marriage the same way.
contention
fight the human world is often concentrated in the pursuit of material wealth. Material things, more natural is good, but also nothing less, to ensure the basic survival on the line. The pursuit of spiritual wealth, there is no conflict between people, a person's wealth will never lead another person in poverty.
This shows what the human world, half are not worth the fight, the other half is not indisputable. Therefore, the contention!
let it
the world there are some things you can not at their disposal, such as luck and opportunity,
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the world there are some things that can dictate your own, such as interest and ambition, life skills and a man, then a good effort in these areas, as efforts What were the results,
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role consciousness
and all the roles I do not like very strong sense of dealing with people, for example, a strong sense of celebrity celebrity, strong sense of authority of a scholar, sir, a strong sense of supervisors, that make me feel tired. I do not believe they are not tired, because such people often can not escape a sense of other roles, in front of children will reach for his father's shelves, in the superior performance of subordinates to be humble before, like the makeup of the actors never the same.
weaknesses and deficiencies
people all have weaknesses, there is real weakness of human nature. The kind of person they think no weaknesses, must be shallow people. Weaknesses that people do not think people, mostly for others.
life Jieyou defects, and bad is the real life. Shortcomings in life that people can not see, or naive, or numbness, or self-deception. It is in the weaknesses and shortcomings
, the weakness in the defect of tolerance and acceptance of, the people live happily.
suffered injustice
the man did something to you no wrong, you end pain. This is understandable, but please enough is enough. You think about the world are unjust, and this is you can not change, as you can not control the character and the suffering of others is not sensible. You think about the unjust will definitely do no wrong, just for the unjust things happen to fall on your head Bale. You think so, it will go beyond personal grudges, you know what happened as the materials of human nature and society, in connection with the fight against unjust state of mind will be much more open and aboveboard.
vocational and career
you do a job, just to make a living, it does not like this work just for your career. You do a job, just because I like and do not care if it can bring benefits, this is your business.
ideal scenario is consistent with business and career, and can do things like to the living. Second good is that both separation and amateur do like. The worst is not really like to do.
now many young people of career dissatisfaction, however, it is sad, really give them freedom of choice, they have only one standard, in addition to more money , earning some better than to not know to what it is.
philosopher
a person has the ability to do God, man is born, he became a philosopher.
Socrates said: \people think of people as a whole knows little knowledge.
perfect heart, but again not perfect, as the fate of the bear down, which is the philosopher.
strengths and weaknesses
everyone's strengths and weaknesses on both sides of the same coin to see which side you turned out.
another way, the potential for everyone concerned, this does not matter short of long and short length is to use the results, well that is strengths, with may not become weaknesses.
character, too, does not matter the merits of their own, to see you well or not. So, in a variety of personality types of people inside, who has become a major event, but also those who have nothing.
people so life
person's life is already ########## students do not bring life. The laughter in the family we were born, but also sadness at the departure of their loved ones. We do not know all this,
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people so life, we want to have a happy home, every day is a happy man. But in life,
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people so life, we should be happy to spend this life. As long as we do not lose confidence in life, the pursuit of ideals, as long as you are faithful to go hard, with optimism to treat, there are good career opportunities to respond rapidly, seize the opportunity, decisive decision-making, should be the wisdom of Superman complete their own ideal of life, because life is short, time as the sword, let the bright every season of life.
life of people so we can not have been in vain. So let us start from the happy! Do what you want, love the one you wanted. Wrong, do not regret it, do not complain, There is no perfect person. Fell, got up and start over. How can the rainbow without the rain, I believe the next time will go more stable.
people so life, people rush into this world to one, each of us should really have a goal. If the struggle we have to struggle, and the struggle to fight us, but still can not get it. Another angle we can think about
: life, you have many dreams that we can not achieve a moment, how many goals is difficult to achieve. We look up we can not achieve those dreams, we are unable to view these goals when it should be a sense of balance to look at our losses. \
people so life, to live relaxed, live free and easy, you should \The. \
people so life, not to over-demanding, do not expect too much. If we pursue too hard but still nothing, we might think: If God does not favor to me, let me stand out, let me excel, and I insist to insist, why should it? Prominent people, while they Yong Ping mediocrity. We might as well consoled himself: It is you, hide also become obvious; not for you, ask, ask not to come. I need to think hard and wrestling with how to hold those who originally did not belong to me things? Money, power, fame is not the most important, the most important thing should be kind to yourself, even with the whole world will vanish with the dead. If we think if we will not be added to those meaningless for their trouble.
we all used to think that some things can not let go. \When growing away, when you look back, you will find that you can not let go of things once thought only a stepping-stone moments of life. All the sadness, pain, all can not give up things, but a transition in life, you skip, can become more interesting. Love lost, frustrated, or even divorced, that we have suffered in love, are nothing but a springboard, but to make you grow. People in the springboard, the most difficult is not the moment to jump off, but before jumping to the heart of the struggle, hesitating, helpless and hard, can not talk to others. We think that jump is not passed, close your eyes, the courage, but it skipped.
people so life is fun day, is not happy one day, why insist on forcing their own unhappy? Yes ah, people on such a life, mistakes can not have come to life; broken heart can no longer heal the life; after today will not have another day of life; all of a minute will not back to life, why do not we cherish the present, why should we desperately self-pity, suffering regret it?
life of people so we can take it lightly to face, you can also take a positive, when you Kanbu Kai, when you too proud, when you angry, when you get stuck in your pain Think about it, anyway, you are always blessed with this life.
life of people so there is no afterlife. So let us start from the smile! People live life, happy the most important. Has a healthy body,
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Every day is not long flowers open; Life is short, a good way to cherish it, treat it, take it! Treasure everyone around you. Treasure! Treasure! Treasure! Treasure!