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2127296 2010 年 11 月 13 日 13:58 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (1) Category: Personal Diary
a One psychologist has written, a mature love affair must be regarded as four phases, that is:
coexistence (codependent) anti-dependent (counterdependent) independent (independent) symbiotic (interdependent)
stage conversion between the time required is not necessarily, the person asking questions.
first stage: co-exist. This is love period,
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second stage: anti dependence. Wait until the emotional stability, at least there will be one you want to have more time for their own want to do, then the other will feel neglected.
third stage: independence. This is a continuation of the second phase, demand more independence and time.
fourth stage: symbiosis. At this time the new has been formed to get along, you, he (she) has become the closest person to you. You guys support each other and together the life of your own. Do not tie him down with you to each other, and each other grow.
However, most people pass the second or third stage, the choice of breaking up a way, it is very unfortunate. A lot of things will be all right as long as good communication,
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want to see these four stages, really give you some inspiration and insight, and unfortunately edge, we will gradually become the people we love. You and he was not in common, do not look alike, personality is totally different, once fell in love, and longstanding, you will be amazed your eyes a bit like his eyes, his smile a bit like your smile. Walk your pace somewhat similar tone of voice is also more and more alike. His neck a mole, one day, you find yourself neck can have a mole,
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happiness is very simple ... ...
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I wish you all happiness!
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