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Of course, we understand that a wedding is all about the bride and groom. Bridesmaids are there to support the bride, and the rules for how a bridesmaid needs to support the bride tend to be very specific. However, in discussions, it's easy to sense that some of the rules are not so clear and
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It's safe to assume that someone who hasn't been in a wedding before usually has no idea the actual cost of being a bridesmaid. And the cost is formidable, especially for a college student, young mother
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There are a few lessons learned from brides able to deftly manage the issue of cost with their friends that may be helpful for a future bride, especially one who values her friendships. Here are a few tips:
* Before even asking a friend to be in your wedding
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* The thing that seems to cause the most problem is the dress, especially if a bride wants her bridesmaids to wear something a little pricey. Some brides often counter that they purposely choose a dress that can be worn again but the odds are, in spite of the best intentions, it won't. It's a style the bride likes, not necessarily the bridesmaid. To avoid hard feelings over the dress
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* If you want your friend to wear a dress you know she can't afford, pay for the dress and alterations but in a discrete way. Don't send her a check as reimbursement for the dress but instead, for example
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* If you don't have your heart set on a particular dress, you could choose a color and style, e.g. tea length, and let each bridesmaid select her own dress in that color and style.
* If your bridesmaid does not live in the city where you are getting married
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Your wedding day is important. It's easy to get caught up in the events of the day but remember it's just one day. Friendships are for life. It's important to remember that the day is about marrying the man you love surrounded by those who mean the most to you - the people you want in your life for the rest of your life.
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